If You Don't do it, You Don't Really Believe it. Some people spend their whole time searching for what's right, but they can't seem to find any time to practice it. Your life story is not written with a pen, but with your actions. To do nothing is the way to be nothing.

Wednesday, May 9, 2007

question of the day: does it matter? (feedback pls?)

i think this is yummy post.. i always and always wonder in my curious mind.... does materials (rich and famous)important to girls or young lady or lady? does the car important to you girls?the car that the boy friend drive rather it b a SLK( small lil kancil) or an X5? does the amout of money the boy friend spent on the Gucci sunglass, or the Guess handbags, or the Armani clothes? does it? does it really really matter? or does it really matter that where is the boyfriend is studying... UK or UTAR? sushi king or ninja jones?

some might say 'oh! NOoo its not really important, its the he love me is important' but when u see your girlfriend's(gf as in girl's best fren) clattered in Prada or something, don't that make you feel jealous?and the "no its NOT important thing seems to be the MOST important thing?" thats NOT the answer am looking for. i wanted some brutally truth answer. if its really important than answer like ...." yes i would choose all that over a guy that really really love me because the you can die with love but cant die with nice lavish food that my RICH boyfriend that gonna treat me and of course am like SOooo gonna die if i broke my nail or don't go to my facial treatment to fill in the holes in my face" yea......... you get the idea.. so i hope...you readers...(if there is ANY) please please gimme your honest opinion.

12 comments:

Anonymous said...

ok,the thing is havin a boyfriend is all bout love...but havin a hubby is all bout de money...not bein a money lovin whore but wantin security n comfort...as long as my boyfriend is loving enough,money is NOT,i repeat NOT of any issue to me my dear darlin JU.....haha,go de comment u wanted?love u!!!

-GM-

julian said...

hey, gurdip...maybe its true what u say...bout those who go for the cash are just whores.. but there are those kinda ppl rite? hubby and boy friend.... hmph.... INTERESING... sorry la maan, you know i just love ashley and ashley alone...heheheheh

Yin Tan said...

wahhhh, u wan me to b honest??? like perfectly honest??? =D

You know I will pick $$$.
I don't know about other girls, but to me money is very-very-very important. Sure when you're in love everything seems lovely, you're in cloud 9 and all ... but in the long run, somehow money will come into the equation. It will eventually. Most people are just not realistic and they don't mean it when they say "love is all I need". HYPOCRITES. Behind your back they secretly loathe you for not buying them the Prada.

If you think love is ALL you need, you can gimme ALL your money.. NVM let me suffer for u (tat is with wif ur $$$) hehehe

This is just me and my opinion. Call me a money slave or whore... FINE!!!

P/S: SLK??? tat's my car's nick!!! U copycat me.

Yin Tan said...

On the other hand, WHY can we have both money and love??? Must really choose 1 oni mehhh???

julian said...

well... we have the money taker here...anyone else wanna say anything??/ yes of course u can hav money and love at the same time but the odd is very slim.. so why don't you go to the international student? abdul malik! bet he is rich.. from the land of the black gold

Yin Tan said...

He happens to be very-very creepy. And I'm and atheist! I don't want to be constricted by ANY religion.

PS: If he's realy-realy rich he wud hav gone to UK, US or Germany to take up engineering.
Think!!!

shlee88 said...

it totally depends on the situation..

boyfriend - it doesnt matter if the bf is flat broke or filthy rich. i mean, it'll b nice if the bf can pamper u with gifts and stuff but its not completely necessary. i mean, i'd rather a relationship with plenty of love, trust and honesty than a relationship purely based on material things.

husband - of course financial security is almost as important as love. because without funds, how to raise a family? how to have kids? how to feed the family? but a rich family isnt a family without love lor..

so it totally depends lor

julian said...

no wonder guys marry when they are OLD!!!!!!! so much work for marriage. but come to think of it, its true... need provide food on the table and support the family.. and you girls say its easy to be guy just because u got your time of the month?!

julian said...

to yin: like odowa.. he choose malaysia cause the whether here suits him.. its HOT! just like his place..if not he would have gone russia do doctor.. but he will froze to death.mayb its the same for abdul malik... think again!

Yin Tan said...

I have friends who r in Russia and they're still alive albeit the bitter cold. U hav a totally irrelevant point thr.
If you want to be so judgemental against me, why you bother asking for an opinion from me???

You think and rethink!!!

And about the period, it's not like we asked for it so much! DUH!

Well, you guys are the ones who feel obliged to "pamper" us to satisfy your macho-macho man ego. All in the name of "saving face".

(Ouchhh, truth hurts!)

Yin Tan said...

Imagine you're a girl. Would you want to marry a poor tukang angkut sampah from DBKL? In the first place, would you even fall for him??? ASSUME you're a girl ok.

Please don't give me crappy answer!

~Gurdip Kaur Maan~ said...

yay!!!ashley...u go girlll...u got it right on target...axactly wat i meant...peace out...