being right

everyone always thinks that they are right. no matter what it may be, from their actions to thier words.yes, am no exception too..but the question is..... are we as right as we think we are? yes its a good thing to stick by our own personal opinion and yet again, what IF our own very opinion that we belive so strongly is WRONG?? how do we accept it? with open heart or with denial and still think that we are right?? a few suggetion and i shall stress it is my own personal SUGGESTION(i may be wrong here) is......

1. we can start by opening our ears to others opinion.
2. get more opinion on that matter
3. refer to someone older or have more experience on that matter
4. if we are wrong... (this is very hard, trust me) try to digest the fact with our own opinion and don let our personal emotion at that particular moment influence our thought as at that time we might be angry or not contented as we are proven wrong
5. last and final step..........................admit it.

admitting take a HUGE courage and guts adn also sense of maturity. so the next time you are in a heated argument, let your guard down and open your ears, being tense and angry is not a solution, yes its ALWAYS easier said than done, especially trying top control something that is unpredictable as our very own emotion, but we still have to try our very best to do so as living in conflict wont do ANYONE good. compromise, give and take- thats how life should be in my own opinion when we live we other people as we cant pleased everyone but we can at least make the best out of it.