priorities

where is our priority? in the sense of do we put our family first or frens?or even gf/bf if we have one.its more like a tug of war.especially if we wan to please everyone. tho sometimes we want to be at two places at one particular time, but sadly we CANT. so who we choose?? basically i have no idea too.do you? of course we would put family first. but what would happen if we have a not very understanding friend or gf/bf ( thank God i don). it would totally ruin our time with our family. normally the tug of war will b between frens and bf/gf. some fren would stick to you like a glue and wont give even 10 minutes for you 2 love birds have your own time and some gf/bf wont give a time for you to bond with your buddies, your hommies or your "girlfrens". its hard to find the perfect balance, its not like some formula 1 car where you can adjust the aerodynamic with just a twist of the wrench. life is simple... but its not sometimes..