friends..

what is really friendship? maybe you all can help me with this question. cause i seem confuse with it. of cause we heard of a fren in need is a fren is deed, those ppl that stick with u during the storm whether and share your joy and pain. but all that seems like a fairytale to me... but i do witness real friends around.

do you share EVERYTHING with your fren? i mean there is also boundary between friends right? no matter how close you are there are still things that you just don interfere. thing called privacy. for example, matters that related to your friend's family, belief, religion or your fren's relationship may it b their gf or bf. things like this, you just have to keep your distant and respect each and every decision that your fren made and give your honest opnion or advice only if you are asked to give one or need to give one.

other thing i witness is, how one can cherish a friendship.they don mind been taken advantage, or abused. it amaze me how much patient that person actually have to tolerate all the non sense.but than again, if they are friends, it won't be taking advantage, it is called making favors, tho sometimes it seems 1 sided.

does real friends show that they are much more superior than others? in what ever way lah.. or is it just guys ego to show that they are better than others?which i find its RUBBISH.why must we show that we are superior? a great man don need any introduction,others will talk abaout him.1 question my friends, would you throw away years of friendship just to show that are better than your good fren?

real frens is like a soilder, they never leave their man behind.well, if you caught your self in such situation, run! run fast. there are lots of ppl around that would want to be your fren.with an open an sincere heart, anyone would find a fren..and a true one!