the book of love

why do people get involve in a relationship? some get involve due to peer pressure, some get involve coz they love the idea of other people liking them, some are just desperate,some just wanna play with others heart, but for me, i get involve because i found the person that i care a LOT, and i belive that she would b a perfect soulmate for me. ,its just the feeling, the feeling that u get if u know a person for a LONG time. you don need to be close to know someone, you could observe them from far or could chose to approach them, but all of this takes time. "love takes time" - mariah carey

why people want a relationship? i don think if people "wants" it. it just come naturally due to the spark and attraction form both parties. it could b physical or inner beauty attraction, but that all depends on the individual. having a relationship, do have its up and down, but if its genuine, it could lift u higher and makes you achieve in life, its a some kinda brand new happiness that you cant acheive thru friendship or family love.

desperation could make people to do crazy stuff. i mean some would kill them self due to a fail relationship, some would fake pregnancy to sustain the relationship. i mean i know a school where almost all the guy and girl have been with each other, its like they mix and match, this is no hollywood! plus if we keep on exchanging partner, it kinda take the meaning out of the word, "i love u", which been thrown easily. i find that very shallow.

people try lots of way to get into a relationship, some would try so hard to approach a girl till they would hav fantasies bout the girl, and the girls on the other hand, would "sell" off their body, with constant flirting, or the winking of the eyes, that are sign of trying too hard or just plain cheap. some would b hostile to apply the " also long as she/he not married i still have chance" but do they ever think of the outcome? if u stole other people gf/bf its can happen to u too... its karma. what goes around comes around. but then again these are all people's opinion on things. nobody would learnt till it happens to them, i mean not only in relationship, it apply in real life too. because life really can b a harsh teacher for all of us.

now, am facing the greatest test of r resistance of all, the mother of all test, and also the grandfather of all test. Long distant relationship. its not gonna b easy. today i know 1 of my fren fails, tho am not sure what have happened, but its not really a vote of confidence. but then again, nobody decide a relationship, but the couple. its the relationship between 2 of God's creation, so only both of them could decide what would happen, what could happen and what might happen. so my decision is.......... to stick, stick with the one i love, coz i can really see a future with this wonderful girl. Ashley Chin Tien-ni

once my dad's fren who is a sea captain once said " in a boat, riding the wave is the most fun part" so i guess am riding this 3 years "wave" which is gonna b full of ups and down, till i reach my wonderful paradise of a destination, full with rainbow. an island paradise.