pics from chillis @ bsc...guess i already said what happen on the previous post rite... well.. ashley cutted the heart shaped chicken meat into 2!! oh well....thats all for now....ta
Thursday, April 26, 2007
26/04/07
pics from chillis @ bsc...guess i already said what happen on the previous post rite... well.. ashley cutted the heart shaped chicken meat into 2!! oh well....thats all for now....ta
top 10 things to do
julian things to do list...
1 word to describe it......."BEAUTIFUL" yes everything is beautiful since my quiet return to bangsar on wednesday evening.. lots of my friends might not know am back because
- spend as much time as possible with ashley
- watch tv
- STUDY STUDY STUDY
- chillis
- mamak
- mid v
- book flight tickets and all the transport for the kids for trip in december
- make any last preparation for my trip in my/june
- pool
- and more FooD!!!
1 word to describe it......."BEAUTIFUL" yes everything is beautiful since my quiet return to bangsar on wednesday evening.. lots of my friends might not know am back because
- i HAVE to study for my finals
- iHAVE to study for lab finals (coming thursday)
- i HAVE to catch up on what i've been missing in class due to my day dreaming
so so so so so so SORRY everyone... but than guess wat happen...i met dena gurdip at the street of bangsar... at least some consolation and they still know am ALIVE!!! i was walking around with her.. who? yes ashley. ashley CHIN TIEN NI with some of my class mate think i am a player dating 2 girls at 1 time ( ashley and tien ni).and now no more questions k dena and gurdip. oh well.... we went to starbucks... how come nobody tell me there is the out door area at starbucks which can c the view of bangsar!!??? went there get the breeze and catching up some lost time.
at home, yes home sweet home!! i parked my butt on the couch.i love the couch btw.till dinner.which i might add was 'beautiful'. mom cook sotong!! my fav... and last nite it even get better prawns and sotong. what is it tonight still remain a mystery... hehehhee but home cook food is always the best.guess i miss it LOTS. and i watch the chelsea and liverpool match with my dad and bro. its been a while since 3 of us watch a football watch togather, heck to even stay in the house at the same time, since my dad constant travelin and so do my brother though he got shifted to J.b from singapore and me myself.. in lil old melaka. so it was a good touch to the bond.. though its no man u match but what the hell
day2 ,thursday...did the things on my to do list.....spend time with ashley, (did i type too much of ashley in this post?sorry cant seem to get enough of her ) anyways v went to chilis at bangsar shopping complex.. she was reluctant to go...she is afraid i blew a hole in my wallet, but then again i kinda insist on it. high and might pie have my name all written on it...and the citrus rice with chicken and prawn is just heavenly. bill at chillis---forgotten how much... a perfect date--priceless. then v go to the socials to play pool! seems like my back hand -no look-shot works for once =) then we crash into bangsar village. sent her home with a big fat smile on my face. oh another thing on my list that i did on my way home, get rojak. yes those beautful food in kacang sauce.
off to watch numbers....at 6 am =)
Tuesday, April 24, 2007
guys watch out
Why I wouldn’t date him…By Dave Singleton
When it comes to sizing up our dates, don’t we all feel a little Seinfeld-ian from time to time? When I interviewed women for this article, I heard many, many complaints—from the universal, easily understood to the mystifyingly personal. Let me give you some samples: “He smoked.” “He wasn’t nice to the waiter.” “He put ketchup on his eggs—gross!” “His shoes were too pointy.” “His nose hair needed grooming.” “He looked like he’d be a slobbery kisser.” During those early dates, many of us turn into Jerry, Elaine and George, and nitpick our dates into obscurity. But after you’ve made it through the first few obstacles and dated him for a few months, what are the next series of “should we continue or not” hurdles you face? I discovered there are some common themes when it comes to why women give a guy a chance… and then give him the old heave-ho. Listen in as women share what turns Mr. Maybe into Mr. Not-If-You-Were-the-Last-Man-on-Earth:
Mr. Bad Manners. “While eating spaghetti, he practically buried his face in the bowl and slurped the noodles, then tried to talk to me with noodles dangling from his mouth,” says Jenny, 29, of Washington, D.C., who dated Todd, 32, for three months. “I wish I had seen his bad manners earlier,” says Jenny. “What I learned is that people can stay on their best behavior for a few weeks, or even months, but eventually, the truth comes out. I guess that Todd was on his best behavior the first month or so. He didn’t show such poor table manners at first. But after asking him repeatedly and politely to stop chewing with his mouth open, I finally gave up. He wouldn’t listen to me and was very defensive about the whole subject. I learned one thing about myself. Bad table manners are my deal-breaker.”Lesson to learn: Stay on your best manners—until they become your everyday manners.
Mr. Cheapo. “Barry, the man I was seeing for five months, is cute, but I hate that he’s cheap,” says Linda, 37, of Norfolk, VA. “He’s my age and makes a good living as a lawyer. So he has no excuse, really. Cheapness is the kiss of death for me. I hate when a man you’re seeing turns into an accountant at the end of a meal or event. Barry would turn to me and say, ‘And your half comes to…,’ until it finally drove me crazy. The final straw was when, on my birthday, he gave me a tacky “re-gift” out of his closet. To top it off, he never wanted to spend money going to plays or cultural events. I’m not saying a guy needs to spend a mint on me, but I believe money should be used in moderation to create great shared experiences and convey affection. It wasn’t about the money as much as it was his attitude.”Lesson to learn: Be open to spending some money on shared experiences that bond the two of you and create great memories. Also know that there are plenty of women out there who expect a guy to pay until the relationship is rock-solid (not saying it’s fair, just that’s the way it is).
Mr. Zero Ambition. “We had fun at first,” says Stacy, 35, of Pasadena, CA, about her short-term boyfriend Allan, 36. “But I had to leave him after six months. Yes, he was a nice guy. It just didn't feel right with him because he has no future ambition, like getting married or wanting to have a stable career. He works at a video store, which would have been fine, but he just doesn’t seem to care about what he does or have any plan for his life (hey, he usually didn’t even have a plan for the weekend!). Eventually, I want to buy a home and fix it up with my husband. I also want to have kids, which costs a lot of money these days, so I need a guy who cares at least a little about finances. I enjoyed his company for the months we were together, but his passive approach to just watching his life go by got to me. It got boring to be with a guy who never wanted to do anything but watch TV.”Lesson learned: Think about where you want to be in 5 or 10 years, and take steps to go after it. Take a small risk, show some initiative. And if your job doesn’t thrill you, try sharing something else that you are passionate about — Mexican food, kayaking, whatever — with your date so she can learn from you and feel a deeper connection and an excitement about being with you.
Mr. Neglectful. “Once we got into the comfort zone of dating regularly, he started ignoring me and I couldn’t take it anymore,” says Sharon, 39, of Hartford, CT, of Lou, 42, her boyfriend of four months. “What started out as an exciting relationship turned into such a lonely affair. When we first met, he surprised me with calls during the day, funny emails, and nights out on the town. But little by little, he stopped doing all of that. He made excuses for not spending as much time with me. He either saw his friends alone several nights a week or wanted to, in his words, ‘chill out from the long work day.’ The funny thing is that I don’t think he was planning to break up with me. Even though I’d been telling him for a few weeks that I wasn’t happy with the lack of time and energy going into our relationship, he seemed surprised when I broke up with him. It’s like he wooed me and then once he got me, he didn’t want to make an effort anymore. Lack of connection seemed fine with him, but it didn’t work for me.”Lesson learned: You don’t have to be with her 24/7, but do know that there’s the expectation by many women to see their guy once during the week and on the weekend—once they get into a dating groove, that is. If you can’t spend that much time with her, let her know you’re thinking of her with a quick email or text message now and then, or just a voicemail saying that you’re heading out to hockey practice with the guys but are thinking of how much fun it will be to see her on the weekend.
Mr. Independence. “What happens when you realize you’re dating someone who isn’t sure he wants to be dating?” asks New Yorker Diane, 32. “I met Tom through friends and really liked him… but as we began dating regularly — three or four times a week — I noticed that he kept joking about how he’d never marry until he was 50, how he was thinking of going on a guys-only vacation over the summer… it was as if he wanted me to know, don’t get too serious about this guy. He still treated me well, but I couldn’t ignore the signals he was so clearly sending about his priorities, and broke things off.”Lesson learned: Not looking to get serious? Send those signals out from day one. Don’t start seeing someone and then back-pedal like crazy. It’s much better to find someone who’s also looking for something casual, too.
When it comes to sizing up our dates, don’t we all feel a little Seinfeld-ian from time to time? When I interviewed women for this article, I heard many, many complaints—from the universal, easily understood to the mystifyingly personal. Let me give you some samples: “He smoked.” “He wasn’t nice to the waiter.” “He put ketchup on his eggs—gross!” “His shoes were too pointy.” “His nose hair needed grooming.” “He looked like he’d be a slobbery kisser.” During those early dates, many of us turn into Jerry, Elaine and George, and nitpick our dates into obscurity. But after you’ve made it through the first few obstacles and dated him for a few months, what are the next series of “should we continue or not” hurdles you face? I discovered there are some common themes when it comes to why women give a guy a chance… and then give him the old heave-ho. Listen in as women share what turns Mr. Maybe into Mr. Not-If-You-Were-the-Last-Man-on-Earth:
Mr. Bad Manners. “While eating spaghetti, he practically buried his face in the bowl and slurped the noodles, then tried to talk to me with noodles dangling from his mouth,” says Jenny, 29, of Washington, D.C., who dated Todd, 32, for three months. “I wish I had seen his bad manners earlier,” says Jenny. “What I learned is that people can stay on their best behavior for a few weeks, or even months, but eventually, the truth comes out. I guess that Todd was on his best behavior the first month or so. He didn’t show such poor table manners at first. But after asking him repeatedly and politely to stop chewing with his mouth open, I finally gave up. He wouldn’t listen to me and was very defensive about the whole subject. I learned one thing about myself. Bad table manners are my deal-breaker.”Lesson to learn: Stay on your best manners—until they become your everyday manners.
Mr. Cheapo. “Barry, the man I was seeing for five months, is cute, but I hate that he’s cheap,” says Linda, 37, of Norfolk, VA. “He’s my age and makes a good living as a lawyer. So he has no excuse, really. Cheapness is the kiss of death for me. I hate when a man you’re seeing turns into an accountant at the end of a meal or event. Barry would turn to me and say, ‘And your half comes to…,’ until it finally drove me crazy. The final straw was when, on my birthday, he gave me a tacky “re-gift” out of his closet. To top it off, he never wanted to spend money going to plays or cultural events. I’m not saying a guy needs to spend a mint on me, but I believe money should be used in moderation to create great shared experiences and convey affection. It wasn’t about the money as much as it was his attitude.”Lesson to learn: Be open to spending some money on shared experiences that bond the two of you and create great memories. Also know that there are plenty of women out there who expect a guy to pay until the relationship is rock-solid (not saying it’s fair, just that’s the way it is).
Mr. Zero Ambition. “We had fun at first,” says Stacy, 35, of Pasadena, CA, about her short-term boyfriend Allan, 36. “But I had to leave him after six months. Yes, he was a nice guy. It just didn't feel right with him because he has no future ambition, like getting married or wanting to have a stable career. He works at a video store, which would have been fine, but he just doesn’t seem to care about what he does or have any plan for his life (hey, he usually didn’t even have a plan for the weekend!). Eventually, I want to buy a home and fix it up with my husband. I also want to have kids, which costs a lot of money these days, so I need a guy who cares at least a little about finances. I enjoyed his company for the months we were together, but his passive approach to just watching his life go by got to me. It got boring to be with a guy who never wanted to do anything but watch TV.”Lesson learned: Think about where you want to be in 5 or 10 years, and take steps to go after it. Take a small risk, show some initiative. And if your job doesn’t thrill you, try sharing something else that you are passionate about — Mexican food, kayaking, whatever — with your date so she can learn from you and feel a deeper connection and an excitement about being with you.
Mr. Neglectful. “Once we got into the comfort zone of dating regularly, he started ignoring me and I couldn’t take it anymore,” says Sharon, 39, of Hartford, CT, of Lou, 42, her boyfriend of four months. “What started out as an exciting relationship turned into such a lonely affair. When we first met, he surprised me with calls during the day, funny emails, and nights out on the town. But little by little, he stopped doing all of that. He made excuses for not spending as much time with me. He either saw his friends alone several nights a week or wanted to, in his words, ‘chill out from the long work day.’ The funny thing is that I don’t think he was planning to break up with me. Even though I’d been telling him for a few weeks that I wasn’t happy with the lack of time and energy going into our relationship, he seemed surprised when I broke up with him. It’s like he wooed me and then once he got me, he didn’t want to make an effort anymore. Lack of connection seemed fine with him, but it didn’t work for me.”Lesson learned: You don’t have to be with her 24/7, but do know that there’s the expectation by many women to see their guy once during the week and on the weekend—once they get into a dating groove, that is. If you can’t spend that much time with her, let her know you’re thinking of her with a quick email or text message now and then, or just a voicemail saying that you’re heading out to hockey practice with the guys but are thinking of how much fun it will be to see her on the weekend.
Mr. Independence. “What happens when you realize you’re dating someone who isn’t sure he wants to be dating?” asks New Yorker Diane, 32. “I met Tom through friends and really liked him… but as we began dating regularly — three or four times a week — I noticed that he kept joking about how he’d never marry until he was 50, how he was thinking of going on a guys-only vacation over the summer… it was as if he wanted me to know, don’t get too serious about this guy. He still treated me well, but I couldn’t ignore the signals he was so clearly sending about his priorities, and broke things off.”Lesson learned: Not looking to get serious? Send those signals out from day one. Don’t start seeing someone and then back-pedal like crazy. It’s much better to find someone who’s also looking for something casual, too.
slap
don't you hate it when you realize that your parents is right? i mean after all that constant arguement and than you realize that they are right? its all started in this morning english class as, the lecturer was explaining bout 'symbols'. as there are various symbol practically for everything.. for example lily can represent death and yellow roses can represent friendship. mayb its just a temporary obsession, but i kinda like all these stuff. i mean i am kinda interested on how the greatest tool that ever created works. the human mind that is. instead am learning on how things that human created works, resistors and all... sigh.
its interesting how a human mind works. i mean i can stay at the mamak stall or coffee house just ponder around for human. how they behave and look. very facinating i might add. there are a lot of why's poping through my mind. like 'why that girl with the mini-skirt have leggin?' ' why that fat ugly guy with the hot chic?' or 'why that dude driving that sexy car?' yes its hard to understand everyone... but the best v can do is just observe just a sample of the population.
and just know, i got a slap in the face (no literally lah...) there is the classmate of mine that ALWAYS doin homework and constatly pays 1000% attention in the class and i can hardly pays 40% of my attention. i wonder what is the drive behind this human? is it human or robot? finally i found out that hardship at small age makes the person work harder and harder so wont taste the bad times again... and i wonder as i walk back to my place from class, thats exactly the same reason what my mom sent me here for... (now there is the slapping starts) as i hate to admit it, my mom was right, there lots more to life than having fun,partying and stuff like that.she wants me to taste the hardship of life, how people struggle and the value of a dollar.though i know that lots people struggle in life, but tasting it or observe it with your own self its a totally different experience....
p/s: guess i'll be burning the midnight oil...
its interesting how a human mind works. i mean i can stay at the mamak stall or coffee house just ponder around for human. how they behave and look. very facinating i might add. there are a lot of why's poping through my mind. like 'why that girl with the mini-skirt have leggin?' ' why that fat ugly guy with the hot chic?' or 'why that dude driving that sexy car?' yes its hard to understand everyone... but the best v can do is just observe just a sample of the population.
and just know, i got a slap in the face (no literally lah...) there is the classmate of mine that ALWAYS doin homework and constatly pays 1000% attention in the class and i can hardly pays 40% of my attention. i wonder what is the drive behind this human? is it human or robot? finally i found out that hardship at small age makes the person work harder and harder so wont taste the bad times again... and i wonder as i walk back to my place from class, thats exactly the same reason what my mom sent me here for... (now there is the slapping starts) as i hate to admit it, my mom was right, there lots more to life than having fun,partying and stuff like that.she wants me to taste the hardship of life, how people struggle and the value of a dollar.though i know that lots people struggle in life, but tasting it or observe it with your own self its a totally different experience....
p/s: guess i'll be burning the midnight oil...
don't you hate it when you realize that your parents is right? i mean after all that constant arguement and than you realize that they are right? its all started in this morning english class as, the lecturer was explaining bout 'symbols'. as there are various symbol practically for everything.. for example lily can represent death and yellow roses can represent friendship. mayb its just a temporary obsession, but i kinda like all these stuff. i mean i am kinda interested on how the greatest tool that ever created works. the human mind that is. instead am learning on how things that human created works, resistors and all... sigh.
its interesting how a human mind works. i mean i can stay at the mamak stall or coffee house just ponder around for human. how they behave and look. very facinating i might add. there are a lot of why's poping through my mind. like 'why that girl with the mini-skirt have leggin?' ' why that fat ugly guy with the hot chic?' or 'why that dude driving that sexy car?' yes its hard to understand everyone... but the best v can do is just observe just a sample of the population.
and just know, i got a slap in the face (no literally lah...) there is the classmate of mine that ALWAYS doin homework and constatly pays 1000% attention in the class and i can hardly pays 40% of my attention. i wonder what is the drive behind this human? is it human or robot? finally i found out that hardship at small age makes the person work harder and harder so wont taste the bad times again... and i wonder as i walk back to my place from class, thats exactly the same reason what my mom sent me here for... (now there is the slapping starts) as i hate to admit it, my mom was right, there lots more to life than having fun,partying and stuff like that.she wants me to taste the hardship of life, how people struggle and the value of a dollar.though i know that lots people struggle in life, but tasting it or observe it with your own self its a totally different experience....
p/s: guess i'll be burning the midnight oil...
its interesting how a human mind works. i mean i can stay at the mamak stall or coffee house just ponder around for human. how they behave and look. very facinating i might add. there are a lot of why's poping through my mind. like 'why that girl with the mini-skirt have leggin?' ' why that fat ugly guy with the hot chic?' or 'why that dude driving that sexy car?' yes its hard to understand everyone... but the best v can do is just observe just a sample of the population.
and just know, i got a slap in the face (no literally lah...) there is the classmate of mine that ALWAYS doin homework and constatly pays 1000% attention in the class and i can hardly pays 40% of my attention. i wonder what is the drive behind this human? is it human or robot? finally i found out that hardship at small age makes the person work harder and harder so wont taste the bad times again... and i wonder as i walk back to my place from class, thats exactly the same reason what my mom sent me here for... (now there is the slapping starts) as i hate to admit it, my mom was right, there lots more to life than having fun,partying and stuff like that.she wants me to taste the hardship of life, how people struggle and the value of a dollar.though i know that lots people struggle in life, but tasting it or observe it with your own self its a totally different experience....
p/s: guess i'll be burning the midnight oil...
Monday, April 23, 2007
drama mama
scary ar?
shades for play
shades 2
scene from 'broke back hotel'
fooling around during practise
kuku lan something something that its name
wilson shaking it...
cast of ' her 3 days'
inplant fall off
call 012-..........
after everything is done.......recently the whole foundation semester 3 student have to do a drama for their english presentation... it is also for the annual drama festival...
p/s video of the also available at......
class gathering
pe13+pe14
some just good with their poses
it doesn't matter if u r black or white
some just can't get enough of me
and some just wanna touch the soft cheek
corrupting innocent mind that's what i do =)
do-re-mi? 
odova...he is from Somalia..last nite was the class gathering. its a sort of farewell party for all of us as some might leave to cyberjaya and some might stay in melaka.. and even if we stay in cyber or melaka, some of us might not even b in the same class as we have to choose our on majoring. so it is TONS of fun.. its nice to see that everyone just bonded togather.yes FINALLY everyone let everything go just for 1 night and just casually talk with 1another. no bitching, no giving stares. it is NOT that hard after all huh?? i wonder why people need to wait till last nite onli to get along. in the famous words of Martin Luther King, " why can't we all get along?" to be one? to be as class mate? to be nice with one another? to feel like you belong is not that hard. just TALK . its not exactly rocket science.. so everyone come out of their own shell and have a blast.so its all GOOD.
what we do....
- went to US pizza around 730 p.m as everyone gahter there
- food arrive around 8.45? its not bad after all the food there... or am just damn hungry
- suprise Ee lin with a birthday cake, she just arrived from Ipoh
- cam whores... till the shop closes..
- off to SUNSHINE BAR around 1045 or so.... (7cars went) nice place with nice interior... their floor r cool as we can c thru it and underneath its water!!. and it live up to the name 'sunshine' as it is located by the beach side thus we can c the sunshine. too bad we don stay that long
- things get out of hand as one of us got DRUNK!! but its all good as whole class go out and check the drunken person
- arrive my place around 1.30
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